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Otev\u00edr\u00e1m dve\u0159e a vid\u00edm statn\u00e9ho, narovnan\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, klidn\u00e9 povahy s v\u0159el\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem. Pot\u00e9 co se dozv\u00edd\u00e1m co budeme \u0159e\u0161it, se mi t\u011b\u017eko v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee zrovna s t\u00edmto probl\u00e9mem z\u00e1pas\u00ed. Je na n\u011bm vid\u011bt, \u017ee seberozvoj mu nen\u00ed ciz\u00ed a ve vztaz\u00edch jde do hloubky.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u201eUv\u011bdomil jsem si, \u017ee v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b se opakuje stejn\u00fd vzorec. Pozn\u00e1m \u017eenu, zamiluji se, d\u011bl\u00e1m pro ni v\u0161e, aby byla \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 a nakonec m\u011b odkopne. Nerozum\u00edm tomu, co d\u011bl\u00e1m \u0161patn\u011b a vn\u00edm\u00e1m to tak, \u017ee si m\u011b nav\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. P\u0159ipad\u00e1m si vlastn\u011b vyu\u017eit\u00fd. P\u0159ijde mi norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee \u017een\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1m s jejich probl\u00e9my, o tom je p\u0159eci taky vztah. U toho posledn\u00edho vztahu mi to do\u0161lo. K tomu m\u00e1m dojem, \u017ee z n\u011bj nejsem \u00fapln\u011b venku. Ob\u010das jsme v kontaktu, a i kdy\u017e jsem to dal jasn\u011b najevo, \u017ee se ke mn\u011b takhle chovat nebude, tak se ob\u010das ozve.\u201c<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

1.sezen\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159es ud\u00e1losti v sou\u010dasn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, kde c\u00edtil na hrudi, \u017ee si ho \u017eeny nev\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, jsme se octli v ud\u00e1losti ke zpracov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je to rok 1820<\/strong>, jsem mu\u017e sed\u00edc\u00ed v hospod\u011b a vid\u00edm tam \u017eenskou, l\u00edb\u00ed se mi. Jdeme si spolu zatancovat a sm\u011bjeme se. Pak si jdu pro pivo a kdy\u017e se ohl\u00e9dnu, tak u\u017e ji nevid\u00edm. Od t\u00e9 doby ji m\u00e1m v hlav\u011b. V\u0161ude se ji sna\u017e\u00edm naj\u00edt. Chod\u00edm pracovat na pole a pak jdu do t\u00e9 hospody, docela chlast\u00e1m. Tu opilost c\u00edt\u00edm. P\u0159esp\u00e1v\u00e1m n\u011bkde na sl\u00e1m\u011b. Jednoho dne tam je zase z\u00e1bava a j\u00e1 u\u017e jsem trochu pod vlivem. Vid\u00edm j\u00ed tam p\u0159ich\u00e1zet s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm. C\u00edt\u00edm vztek a neovl\u00e1dnu se, \u017e\u00e1rl\u00edm. V\u016fbec tam nep\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm. Pereme se, vezmu \u017eidli a ml\u00e1t\u00edm ho, bohu\u017eel k smrti. C\u00edt\u00edm tady ruce a hlavu. Ut\u00edk\u00e1m pry\u010d, schov\u00e1v\u00e1m se, proto\u017ee m\u011b hledaj\u00ed. Doch\u00e1z\u00ed mi to, je mi z toho hrozn\u011b a rozhodnu se ob\u011bsit. D\u00e1v\u00e1m provaz na strom, vis\u00edm. C\u00edt\u00edm krk, hlavu, hru\u010f pak to vid\u00edm ze shora. Odch\u00e1z\u00edm n\u011bkam nahoru, je tu p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b. Uv\u011bdomuji si, \u017ee jsem si to zp\u016fsobil s\u00e1m. Pozn\u00e1v\u00e1m partnerku, je to ona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nakonec po n\u011bkolika pr\u016fchodech si to byl schopen i odpustit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u00e1v\u011br: Pochopil jsem tam spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed, c\u00edt\u00edm se svobodn\u011bji a tak n\u011bjak se c\u00edt\u00edm sm\u00ed\u0159en\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nicm\u00e9n\u011b jsme v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee bude pot\u0159eba pracovat d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.sezen\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00fdval\u00e1 partnerka se zase ozvala a nen\u00ed mi z toho dob\u0159e. Cht\u011bl bych se na to pod\u00edvat. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to nem\u016f\u017ee dopadnout jinak, ne\u017e jako p\u0159edt\u00edm a nebude si m\u011b zase v\u00e1\u017eit. Chci j\u00edt v \u017eivot\u011b d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1592<\/strong> – Stoj\u00edm v podhrad\u00ed a vid\u00edm kr\u00e1snou \u017eenu v b\u00edl\u00fdch \u0161atech, hodn\u011b se mi l\u00edb\u00ed, ona m\u011b nevid\u00ed. Uv\u011bdomuji si, \u017ee je v jin\u00e9m spole\u010densk\u00e9m postaven\u00ed ne\u017e j\u00e1. Jdu do hospody (zase) a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m to tam chlap\u016fm. Sm\u011bj\u00ed se mi, a\u0165 na to zapomenu. Sna\u017e\u00edm se j\u00ed naj\u00edt, ale nenach\u00e1z\u00edm. Pracuji a pak chod\u00edm do hospody. (Uv\u011bdomuje si ur\u010dit\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 se opakuj\u00ed.) Jednoho dne spat\u0159\u00edm ko\u010d\u00e1r a b\u011b\u017e\u00edm za n\u00edm, vid\u00edm ji tam, ale necht\u011bj m\u011b k n\u00ed pustit. Odhod\u00ed m\u011b a j\u00e1 se c\u00edt\u00edm hrozn\u011b. Je to zase partnerka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tady jako terapeut jsem zaregistrovala to \u201elp\u011bn\u00ed\u201c a on si to uv\u011bdomil taky. Jdeme tedy d\u00e1l do minulosti, kde to vzniklo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1300<\/strong> – Jsem ryt\u00ed\u0159, jsme v bitv\u011b a prohr\u00e1v\u00e1me. Bojuji bok po boku s p\u0159\u00e1teli, ale mus\u00edme ustoupit. Lezeme do n\u011bjak\u00e9ho kopce. V\u0161\u00edm\u00e1m si tam \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 ut\u00edk\u00e1 k n\u00e1m. M\u00e1m pot\u0159ebu j\u00ed zachr\u00e1nit. D\u011bl\u00ed n\u00e1s p\u0159\u00edkop a nezvl\u00e1dne ho p\u0159esko\u010dit. Vis\u00ed mi za ruku a j\u00e1 ji neudr\u017e\u00edm. Pad\u00e1 dol\u016f a je mi stra\u0161n\u011b, zklamal jsem, nedok\u00e1zal jsem to. Dal\u0161\u00ed dny, jsou chlapi v pohod\u011b, pr\u00fd si to nem\u00e1m vy\u010d\u00edtat, ale j\u00e1 to vn\u00edm\u00e1m, \u017ee jsem selhal. Je mi z toho smutno, c\u00edt\u00edm hodn\u011b hru\u010f, tohle si neodpust\u00edm. Je to zase ona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dal\u0161\u00edmi pr\u016fchody se mu ulevilo a nakonec si to odpustil. Pak jsme se vr\u00e1tili zp\u011bt k ud\u00e1losti, kterou jsme proch\u00e1zeli p\u0159edt\u00edm a pocity \u201elp\u011bn\u00ed\u201c tam nebyly. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1: \u201e Je to hezk\u00e1 \u017eensk\u00e1, to jo, ale \u017ee bych ji musel m\u00edt, to ne. Ulevilo se mi hodn\u011b.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u00e1v\u011br: C\u00edt\u00edm \u00falevu, je mi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co mysl\u00edte, jak to dopadlo v sou\u010dasn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b? Jak se to propsalo do sou\u010dasnosti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00fdsledky to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b m\u011blo. P\u0159estal c\u00edtit vinu a narovnalo se sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, stal se opravdu mu\u017eem, proto\u017ee u\u017e nebyl ryt\u00ed\u0159em co zklamal. Po n\u011bjak\u00e9 dob\u011b dost\u00e1v\u00e1m zp\u011btnou vazbu, \u017ee je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd a vr\u00e1tili se k sob\u011b. Pr\u00fd je \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e1… Nab\u00edz\u00ed se ot\u00e1zka, kdo se vlastn\u011b zm\u011bnil…???<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Otev\u00edr\u00e1m dve\u0159e a vid\u00edm statn\u00e9ho, narovnan\u00e9ho mu\u017ee, klidn\u00e9 povahy s v\u0159el\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem. Pot\u00e9 co se dozv\u00edd\u00e1m co budeme \u0159e\u0161it, se mi t\u011b\u017eko v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee zrovna s t\u00edmto probl\u00e9mem z\u00e1pas\u00ed. Je na n\u011bm vid\u011bt, \u017ee seberozvoj mu nen\u00ed ciz\u00ed a ve vztaz\u00edch jde do hloubky. \u201eUv\u011bdomil jsem si, \u017ee v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b se opakuje stejn\u00fd vzorec. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[84,83],"class_list":["post-921","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-regrese","tag-sebevedomi","tag-vztahy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=921"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":926,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/921\/revisions\/926"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=921"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=921"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regresniterapiestrakonice.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=921"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}